Most days, work is its own reward, but every once in a while you want to know it makes a difference to others.
Lately, I feel like I give so much to others and no one ever seems to notice let alone acknowledge me. I've reached a point where I'm ready to throw in the towel and become a hermit.
Greg is Greg. I'm sure he appreciates me even though he rarely tells me. I remind him every so often that if I die first, he's going to learn real fast how much I do around here that he has no clue gets done.
As for the rest of the world, this could be an isolated case of acute burnout, or it could be just a bad time in my life. All I know is that if it doesn't clear up soon, I'll be giving up this blog and turn to more introspective pursuits.
I'm not fishing for sympathy. I just want you (whoever is still reading me) to know that if this blog goes dark, it means enough was enough.
At least my cat loves me. He snuggles against my shoulder whenever he gets the chance. The jury is out on the dogs. They and the spouse constantly crave attention. It's exhausting.
Anyway. I'm checking in. I'm not dead, just dispirited.
But that was all the icing on the cake building up over a lot of time of things. I told my oldest daughter that since I'll probably go first, she is not under any circumstances, to do anything for her dad he's not capable of doing for himself. Nothing. He'll be in for a huge surprise on what has to be done around here. Because as much as I love him, it's like living with a toddler that leaves a tornado's destruction in his wake.
I'm only telling you this so you know, I appreciate you. And you're not alone. And while I don't think anyone should start a mutual complaint society, sometimes you need to know you're not alone. It might not make you feel better, but it might make it easier to bear. *hug*
PS: The dog and cat love me because I'm the one that feeds them...
I stopped blogging, gave up Twitter, barely hanging on to FB and Instagram and occasionally interact with friends and family beyond my daughter and dog.
I feel you.
In addition, I put a hard pause (still hard to say "stopped") on writing.
Sometimes you reach a point where you just want and need to focus on you and what's within your property.
For what it's worth, whatever you decide, know that you're a difference maker. You have shared a lot with the world and we appreciate you.🤗🤗🤗
She did everything for her husband and family. And while I'm sure they appreciated her, a little more help might've let her live longer. We'll never know.
re: but when the 'black dog' bites there's nothing you can do but wait for the wound to heal.
Of all the people I know, you are perhaps the most articulate and profound.
Thank you, my friend.
I'd like to think you're only at 'pause'. Eventually things will settle down and you can go back to what you love.
I hear ya. I always make Greg think twice before buying any more tools. It's time to start streamlining.
It's been a struggle-stretch of years, hasn't it? Good people matter. You matter! words are so ridiculously inadequate - wish I could walk around your property with you looking at the signs of spring and just be happy.
Honestly, the last couple of days here have been a blur. Trying to finish my latest, which hit a snag at the end and piled on two extra weeks of work (it's finally DONE.) My kid may be moving to Hawaii, of all places, for a year. Hurricane season prep awaits. The puppies are extra rambunctious and I never seem to have enough time for them. Blood tests this week, doctor next week. I think I'm okay but I don't know. I never know.
My guy is out trimming trees, and comes in wounded somewhere at least once a day to scare me with the blood trails. He's proud of it, while I want to smack the hell out of him. I'm so tired that when *I *got a nosebleed the other day I walked around for a good hour thinking I was just congested. By the time I realized otherwise -- well, trust me, that was not attractive.
If the blog goes dark, my pal, it goes dark. I'll speak for everyone here and remind you that we love you, and wish we could help. Just know that you're not alone here. I love you. We love you.
I'm beginning to learn (from the messages and emails I've received) that some people have it way worse than me. It made me feel bad about feeling sorry for myself. Sometimes when the world gets crowded around me I forget to look at the bigger picture.
It doesn't help my situation, but it gives me a more accurate perspective on what's important.